Win Back Your Ex Boyfriend in 7 Easy Steps

Have you and your boyfriend just broken up?  It really hurts doesn’t it?  If you want to get back your ex boyfriend here is exactly how to win him back in 7 easy steps.

1.       1.            Really think and consider; do you really want him back?  This may sound strange, and even counter intuitive, but while your ex boyfriend may seem indispensible, you WILL be able to go on without him.  However, if he’s something worth fighting for, then keep reading! If he’s not special though, and I mean really special, then don’t try to win back your ex boyfriend just for the sake of not being alone. 

2.            Try to ‘size-up’ the exact reason why you two broke up.  Think carefully about what the reason was, what was said when you two broke up, etc.  Also think back to the things he said to you in the day’s right before you broke up.  Were you guys mostly happy?  Was it an all-of-a-sudden type thing or was it something either of you saw coming?

3.            Don’t contact him.  At all.  A lot of times when girls break up with their boyfriend (I know from personal experience so I’m not judging), they are tempted to call them and text them as much as they can.  They think that since they miss them, that they can show how much they still want to be with their boyfriend and that their boyfriend will come back to them.  Take a few weeks off from speaking to him.  It is VERY important that you give him time to miss you.  Trust me – he will miss you and he will think about you.

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4.            Don’t try to manipulate him.  Making him jealous may seem like a good idea, and flirting with his friends to reach this goal may sound like a good way to go about it – but avoid this at all costs!  Chances are, this will put him off of you completely and it will “lessen” what he thinks about you.  He may even think you are acting slutty. 

5.            Don’t be at his beckon and call.  Guys like the chase of girls.  If you are always there, you are not interesting and you will come off as predictable and rather boring.  Don’t let him feel like he has control over you.

6.            Don’t get your friends involved.  It’s very common for girls to use their other (mutual) girl friends to talk to their ex boyfriend for them.  They do this to get some “recon” and to see how he is feeling.  The guy, 9 times out of 10, will recognize immediately what is going on and it will just end up making you look needy.

7.            Don’t worry about him finding someone else.  More than likely if your ex boyfriend has a new girlfriend, it is just a rebound relationship and there is nothing to worry about.  It is not strange for guys to get with a new girl right after a major break up.  Honestly, these rebound relationships hardly ever make it past fling status.  It is very possible (and likely) that he will come back to you after he has had some time to think things through and to get his life in order.  In the meantime, become everything he wants in a woman.  Improve yourself. Get (more) gorgeous.  Be friendly.  Join a yoga class. Join a gym. Be happy.  These things will make him realize what he’s missing and it will bring him back into your arms.

Lots of girls ask the question “how to get back my ex boyfriend”, and a large percentage of them never get them back.  They do this by being to needy, and doing things counter-intuitive to keeping their man around, thus pushing them farther away.  However, if you follow those 7 steps I guarantee you will increase your chances with getting back with your ex boyfriend 10-fold.